September 13, 2017
Attraction is Overplayed
In nature, a bee is attracted to the bright colour of a flower;
but if there is no nectar, he moves on to the next one.
Attraction can divert attention temporarily… but cannot sustain it.
Humans beings invest a lot into methods of attraction,
but are confused as to why people don’t ‘stay’.
It’s simple, really:
- We are (at the end of the day) looking for nectar (i.e. Character: Kindness, Loyalty, Integrity, etc).
- People are trying to over-stimulate others with attraction; but this will not decrease our need for nectar.
- Over-compensation of attraction, in many cases, signals a lack of nectar.
Focus on what matters.