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Attraction is Overplayed

September 13, 2017

Attraction is Overplayed

Categories: Psychology

In nature, a bee is attracted to the bright colour of a flower;
but if there is no nectar, he moves on to the next one.

Attraction can divert attention temporarily… but cannot sustain it.

Humans beings invest a lot into methods of attraction,
but are confused as to why people don’t ‘stay’.

It’s simple, really:

  • We are (at the end of the day) looking for nectar (i.e. Character: Kindness, Loyalty, Integrity, etc).
  • People are trying to over-stimulate others with attraction; but this will not decrease our need for nectar.
  • Over-compensation of attraction, in many cases, signals a lack of nectar.

Focus on what matters.

[Nectar] Matters.


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